Best friends

I stopped fighting my inner demons, we’re on the same side now… The used tell me there is something wrong with me, now they say I’m Good enough. They used to say I shouldn’t do/say this, now they say “ok, let’s see what happens”. They used to be very noisy when I was trying to sleep or meditate, Now they keep quiet and help me concentrate on the task at hand. They used to say…

"Best friends"

About conditioning and causalities

When someone abuses us or are mean to us it’s not because they are bad people or we did something wrong, it’s because of the conditions and the circumstances around them that lead them to behave that way. We are all conditioned by our environment, by our thoughts, by our upbringing, by our level of awareness, by our education, by our experiences, by the way in that we see the world, by the way, we…

"About conditioning and causalities"

How to have a succesful relationship

If you have ever been in a relationship you know the drill, everything’s great at the beginning for a while then one of you stops trying and everything crumbles in a way that you don’t even realize what’s happening until it’s too late. Then you feel terrible, some time goes by, you think about what you did wrong and tell yourself you won’t be making the same mistakes again in your next relationship. Next relationship…

"How to have a succesful relationship"

Doing nothing

People often ask you what are you doing. Or they want you to do something. I don’t mean like work but yeah, they also always want you to work, a lot. They want you to be like a hamster Running in it’s his wheel. There is an art about doing Nothing and not feeling guilty about it. Because people usually want to make you feel guilty if you do nothing. To the point where we…

"Doing nothing"

Hi, I wrote this

When I was In South America I thought that If I move to Europe everything would be better. After spending a few years in Europe I was still feeling empty inside so I thought well, maybe If I move to Asia everything will be better there. Few years in Asia went by and nothing had really changed So I thought ok, once I go to Australia THEN I could find peace and happiness. After a year…

"Hi, I wrote this"

Excuses

List of excuse people use:For smoking and giving second-hand smoke to non-smokers: – All my friends smoke – I’ve been smoking since I was xxx years – It’s my only pleasure in life / It’s my only vice – I may stop in the future but right now I need it – It helps me relax – Chinese government needs my tax money – It’s just a bad habit – It’s my life, I do…

"Excuses"

How to leave for good

Ok, so you decided you had enough of this place and need to move on with your life. Life is about learning and you have already learned all you needed to learn from this place, there’s nothing else for you here and it’s time to leave for good. You may come back or you may not, the good thing about burning your bridges is that it allows space for new things, opportunities and experiences to…

"How to leave for good"

It all comes together

The continental drifts, the great dying and other mass extinctions, the climate changes, evolution, it all leads you to this very moment in life, you are here because million other beings were brave, tough and lucky to pass on their genes to you.We could say then that now is your time to shine, and there’s nothing to stop you from doing it, there are no predators, no ice age coming anytime soon, we can fight…

"It all comes together"

About understanding

Just some thoughts.  We celebrate life and death, and accept death not as the end of life but as a part of it, a cycle where energy transforms itself but never dies, or not? No, we don’t, we are so attached to our consciousness that we fear death, death means change, so we fear change and we do the same things every day to avoid this fear of the unknown. We treasure life in all…

"About understanding"

Finding thoughts 3

If I have to meet someone I would set up the appointment for either 9 am or 2 pm, that way there are little chances that it will drag on and I then I get invited for lunch or for dinner, because it’s too difficult to explain to people that I can’t eat meat or chili, and I don’t like noodles because they use meat stock to cook it in, and it’s uncomfortable to eat…

"Finding thoughts 3"