The last post was six months ago, what happened since? I left China and came to South America. But why? That’s what everyone ask me always and in the same way that the Japanese say we have 3 faces, one we show to acquaintances, another one for friends and family and the real one that we never show to anyone, the answer to this that I give to people who are not…"But why?"
If I check the facebook news feed To see what my friends are up to I often feel angry, disappointed or frustrated with what I see or read. People share Some negative stuff or comment, What they ate, many things that are not real and have no positive Influence or Relevance In our lives (Deadpool, Batman, celebrities), vanity/ego Related stuff, Or something that they like and they want you to like as well so that…"Understanding negative thoughts"
The more labels we try to put on ourselves and on others, the more obstacles we are placing On our way to freedom, peace, and understanding. For example, even though I’ve been teaching for several years, I don’t consider myself a teacher, I’m just a person who works as a teacher. But I had many other jobs before teaching and will have many different ones in the future. If I were to say “I am…"Labels"
I stopped fighting my inner demons, we’re on the same side now… The used tell me there is something wrong with me, now they say I’m Good enough. They used to say I shouldn’t do/say this, now they say “ok, let’s see what happens”. They used to be very noisy when I was trying to sleep or meditate, Now they keep quiet and help me concentrate on the task at hand. They used to say…"Best friends"
When someone abuses us or are mean to us it’s not because they are bad people or we did something wrong, it’s because of the conditions and the circumstances around them that lead them to behave that way. We are all conditioned by our environment, by our thoughts, by our upbringing, by our level of awareness, by our education, by our experiences, by the way in that we see the world, by the way, we…"About conditioning and causalities"
If you have ever been in a relationship you know the drill, everything’s great at the beginning for a while then one of you stops trying and everything crumbles in a way that you don’t even realize what’s happening until it’s too late. Then you feel terrible, some time goes by, you think about what you did wrong and tell yourself you won’t be making the same mistakes again in your next relationship. Next relationship…"How to have a succesful relationship"
People often ask you what are you doing. Or they want you to do something. I don’t mean like work but yeah, they also always want you to work, a lot. They want you to be like a hamster Running in it’s his wheel. There is an art about doing Nothing and not feeling guilty about it. Because people usually want to make you feel guilty if you do nothing. To the point where we…"Doing nothing"
When I was In South America I thought that If I move to Europe everything would be better. After spending a few years in Europe I was still feeling empty inside so I thought well, maybe If I move to Asia everything will be better there. Few years in Asia went by and nothing had really changed So I thought ok, once I go to Australia THEN I could find peace and happiness. After a year…"Hi, I wrote this"
List of excuse people use:For smoking and giving second-hand smoke to non-smokers: – All my friends smoke – I’ve been smoking since I was xxx years – It’s my only pleasure in life / It’s my only vice – I may stop in the future but right now I need it – It helps me relax – Chinese government needs my tax money – It’s just a bad habit – It’s my life, I do…"Excuses"
Ok, so you decided you had enough of this place and need to move on with your life. Life is about learning and you have already learned all you needed to learn from this place, there’s nothing else for you here and it’s time to leave for good. You may come back or you may not, the good thing about burning your bridges is that it allows space for new things, opportunities and experiences to…"How to leave for good"